The Refreshed Moms Podcast

#148 How Your Childhood Impacts Your Parenting & Business with Raquila D'Nai Smith

September 08, 2020 Deanna Mason Season 5 Episode 148
The Refreshed Moms Podcast
#148 How Your Childhood Impacts Your Parenting & Business with Raquila D'Nai Smith
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The Refreshed Moms Podcast
#148 How Your Childhood Impacts Your Parenting & Business with Raquila D'Nai Smith
Sep 08, 2020 Season 5 Episode 148
Deanna Mason

My name is Deanna, and I struggle with Performance Orientation.

What is performance orientation you may ask?

In a nutshell, It's the strong need to receive affirming validation for your work.

You know, the "Good jobs!" "You're amazing!" "You're awesome!" need to come in all the time in order for you to feel like you're doing good work.

If you're like me and struggle with this, then you probably see this need showing up in your parenting and in your business.

Let me tell you - it's now way to function. And it takes consistent reminders of how we are doing our work unto God and not unto men.

He's really the only one that we need to hear "well done" from, right?

Well, that's the way is should be, but I know all to well that that's not always the way it is.

In this episode, I'm chatting with mom and entrepreneur Raquila D'Nai Smith as she shares about her personal childhood trauma and how she's had to do the hard work of keeping performance orientation at bay in order to parent her daughters and grow her business.

Download Raquila's 7-Day Motherhood Affirmations for Childhood Trauma Survivors.

CONNECT WITH ME

Pray for your business during your morning quiet time with these powerful, targeted prayers.

Download my 5 Daily Prayers for Mompreneurs.

Join the Refreshed Moms Free Facebook Group

Do you need a place to step away from the noise of business building in order to focus on your self-care and integrating God and faith into your work? Take a business break in the Refreshed Moms Facebook Community.
Join here.

The Moms Called to More Membership Community

If you're working to create consistent 2k - 3k months in order to have the income you need to support your home and scale your business, we invite you to join the Moms Called to More Membership Community today.

Join today with a 30-day trial for $9.99.
Learn more here.

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Show Notes

My name is Deanna, and I struggle with Performance Orientation.

What is performance orientation you may ask?

In a nutshell, It's the strong need to receive affirming validation for your work.

You know, the "Good jobs!" "You're amazing!" "You're awesome!" need to come in all the time in order for you to feel like you're doing good work.

If you're like me and struggle with this, then you probably see this need showing up in your parenting and in your business.

Let me tell you - it's now way to function. And it takes consistent reminders of how we are doing our work unto God and not unto men.

He's really the only one that we need to hear "well done" from, right?

Well, that's the way is should be, but I know all to well that that's not always the way it is.

In this episode, I'm chatting with mom and entrepreneur Raquila D'Nai Smith as she shares about her personal childhood trauma and how she's had to do the hard work of keeping performance orientation at bay in order to parent her daughters and grow her business.

Download Raquila's 7-Day Motherhood Affirmations for Childhood Trauma Survivors.

CONNECT WITH ME

Pray for your business during your morning quiet time with these powerful, targeted prayers.

Download my 5 Daily Prayers for Mompreneurs.

Join the Refreshed Moms Free Facebook Group

Do you need a place to step away from the noise of business building in order to focus on your self-care and integrating God and faith into your work? Take a business break in the Refreshed Moms Facebook Community.
Join here.

The Moms Called to More Membership Community

If you're working to create consistent 2k - 3k months in order to have the income you need to support your home and scale your business, we invite you to join the Moms Called to More Membership Community today.

Join today with a 30-day trial for $9.99.
Learn more here.

Website

Instagram

Facebook